New Years' Resolutions

So I thought I would give my two cents about New Years' Resolutions. I have always been someone that made a few New Year's Resolutions quickly on January 1st. Then I would be really good for a couple of days, then I would not look at them and go back to exactly what I was doing before. This is how I was through most of high school and college. Last year I did a better job of writing down a few goals to  really focus on.

Now I am one of those people who thinks having goals is great, if you make a plan to follow through. You can start these goals whenever you would like. When I decided to live a healthier lifestyle I began on August 1, 2017. I have followed through with that goal and have gained more confidence and become more happy with how I feel. I have also managed to drop 50 pounds (if you would like more information about this let me know and I will definitely do a post).

This year I want to take a day (more likely an hour or two) and sit down and really think about attainable goals that I want to focus on in 2019. I have set some categories that I would like to make goals in, they are personal goals, financial goals, health goals, and professional goals. I am going to try to focus on one or two goals in each of these categories.

Now if you would like me to share my goals and how the process goes this year I would definitely be willing to. What I would love is if you would share some of your goals that you have accomplished in the past or even goals you have for the upcoming part of your life.

Also, if any of you have set like 5 year and 10 year goals and have any tips for that I would be super thankful to hear those. I think I am going to try to do 2019 goals, 3 year goals, and 5 year goals this year. I know they will change, but I think it can keep your life moving in a more productive direction.

"Carve" out Some Time

As Thanksgiving approaches I often feel like it is the forgotten holiday. People jump from fall and Halloween straight into Christmas with both feet. Now do not get me wrong, I love Christmas and the season with all my heart, but I am also a big lover of Thanksgiving. I have been excited about Thanksgiving since mid-October. I am excited not only for the food, but also for the day that will be set aside to spend time with my family.

I challenge you to take the day of Thanksgiving and disconnect from the things we are normally connected to. Leave your phone in a different room, do not let the stress of life get to you, and take a deep breath. Use this day to connect and be present with your family. Remember all the simple things we have to be thankful for; health, food, a place to live, or jobs.

Take time that day to connect and talk to the family that is present with you. Enjoy the food, conversation, and laughs. Break out some board games or a deck of cards and enjoy time and company. Take the time and let the true spirit and meaning of the day set in. Do not get lost and rush through a meal so you can stand in line at stores.

Now, you better believe that the day after Thanksgiving I am in full Christmas mode. Bring on the decoration, music, and movies. I love both of these holidays, mainly because I connect them to people I love being the same spot and enjoying the company of each other. While remembering not only the birth of Christ, but also reflect on the numerous blessings He has provided to me in my life.

Let me know some of the things you are thankful for below.